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Death
Sept 23, 2010 21:52:56 GMT
Post by 1deadcop on Sept 23, 2010 21:52:56 GMT
Late last night i got a call, a good friend of mine hung himself. I took this of him in our photo class. He was a great friend, An AMAZING person. talented in Art, music, photography everything he touched turned to gold. ill post a link to his music page when i can. how do you guys deal with the lose of loved ones?
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Death
Sept 23, 2010 21:56:28 GMT
Post by alice on Sept 23, 2010 21:56:28 GMT
I'm sorry to hear that. It must be so confusing when a good person suddenly disappears.
I've been lucky enough not to have anybody close to me die yet. Well, both my Grandads have passed away, but I was too young to remember one of them. The other died a few years ago, but I didn't really see him very much because he lived down near London.
I have yet to experience that sort of grief. But I'm not a very strong person. I worry about it a lot.
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Death
Sept 23, 2010 22:02:20 GMT
Post by Julio on Sept 23, 2010 22:02:20 GMT
I have never had someone close to me die, so I unfortunately cant relate to your loss. I hope you can take the positive things in life and realize how thankful we are to have those
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Death
Sept 23, 2010 22:03:10 GMT
Post by killercroc on Sept 23, 2010 22:03:10 GMT
I have this weird thing where I don't care. I mean, I guess I'm sad but I really don't think about it too much, same as one of my friends (that way I know I'm not heartless).
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Sept 23, 2010 23:10:27 GMT
Post by psychichobo on Sept 23, 2010 23:10:27 GMT
The only deaths in my family have been from Alzheimer's, and they're weird cos it's like a really gradual death. Never had anything sudden.
Sorry to hear about your friend though. My condolences.
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Death
Sept 23, 2010 23:11:44 GMT
Post by Poly on Sept 23, 2010 23:11:44 GMT
When my Grandmother died it was especially hard. We were very close. I played the Harmonica at her funeral. I still miss her so very much. My GF helps me cope with the loss. Go get laid. It's protocol. No chick can say no to the guy who's friend just died.
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Death
Sept 23, 2010 23:13:33 GMT
Post by 1deadcop on Sept 23, 2010 23:13:33 GMT
it hard, this is my second suicide friend and my third close friend to die.
its not that your cold hearted croc, it just hasn't hit you
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Death
Sept 24, 2010 0:44:28 GMT
Post by Dangeresque on Sept 24, 2010 0:44:28 GMT
Both my grandfathers have died, both rather sudden, and my gran has cancer. It's difficult, and I can't really reccomend any dead-cert way to just... get over losing someone.
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Death
Sept 24, 2010 11:33:33 GMT
Post by Poly on Sept 24, 2010 11:33:33 GMT
The next time you masturbate, you'll think he's watching. Good luck with that. It's awkward doing anything while grieving.
I say take a few days off.
Relax.
Try not to masturbate.
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Death
Sept 24, 2010 11:40:19 GMT
Post by salamut2202 on Sept 24, 2010 11:40:19 GMT
i couple of my friends committed suicide, so i'm empathetic.
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Sept 24, 2010 14:40:57 GMT
Post by Custy on Sept 24, 2010 14:40:57 GMT
Have not had anyone really close die yet however this last summer the family went on a trip to see our grandfather. Has parkinsons and my aunt has been saying that this is probably the time to see him as hes going downhilll... She was right, hes fading but not as fast as previously believed... But when you have the entire country to cross to see him i have a bad feeling i probably wont see him again The way i understand it may not have hit you yet that hes gone. May be awhile but theres a good chance it will happen.
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Death
Sept 24, 2010 22:31:35 GMT
Post by Thlaylie on Sept 24, 2010 22:31:35 GMT
The problem with a suicide is it feels so pointless,
AND you get a good dose of survivor's guilt with it.
"If only I had interceded at that magical moment."
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Death
Sept 25, 2010 9:32:40 GMT
Post by FungusA on Sept 25, 2010 9:32:40 GMT
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Death
Sept 26, 2010 12:30:00 GMT
Post by Vespid on Sept 26, 2010 12:30:00 GMT
Not had a lot of direct experience with death outside of a few pets. The first one saddened me deeply... and each one got gradually easier. Everyone has their own ways... find what works best for you. Above all, remember how to smile.
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